Well, that's a point. At least, not immediately after the trauma. Such as, the death of two people who were incredibly important to him, and the return of all the people who got Blipped....... including two people who were incredibly important to him. But yeah, if Bucky has to wait until all his trauma is resolved and processed then he'll never be allowed to choose anything more complicated than a sandwich topping.

Steve's big on grand gestures, and means them, but he doesn't always think them through.

His head whips around anyway, even though he knows that he won't suddenly see the block and be able to say hey, Bucky, I think your eyes need checking. "...huh. Has anything else disappeared?"